Go-getter gal? Or guy?
“I don’t know. My birthday made me think and analyze lots of things.
I realized that I might not be datable at the moment.
It’s just there is something more important for me right now.
I got to work on my shit. Work on my vision and goals.
That’s where my priorities are.
I don’t care much for partying and yes, I prefer to work out instead of partying at night.
I guy friend of mine told me I might be not datable at the moment.
He’s probably right…
I guess it’s what they say.
It’s lonely at the top.”
Ken, one incredibly driven girl I see at the gym, leaving and done at 5 AM, when I come in to work out.
A couple of months ago I’d tell you the same exact thing.
The same exact thoughts were on my mind.
And it felt lonely.
Moving to a new country across the ocean with no connections and friends didn’t help.
But you see, it’s not truth.
There are plenty of people on the top.
It’s kind of lonely in the middle. Where you decide what you have is just not good enough for you anymore, and you have a bigger vision.
Bigger vision for yourself, your life, the world around you.
You know you have it in you. You can change the world! Hell yeah!
“If only I had people like that around me, friends, a date, who is also driven by some crazy vision that only he/she dares to take seriously enough to get after it…”,
I used to think.
Hang in there. You are not alone. WE are plenty. We just got to stop trying to compete and start connecting.
You are unique. There is no competition. You have gifts no one else can give to this world. Connect with other dreamers and together we can overcome anything. You have a piece of the puzzle I’m missing, I have yours.
You are not broken. You are perfect for your life just as you are. You don’t need to fix anything in yourself or your life to get after it, to connect, to make friends-dreamers. To date awesome successful people!
To date like-minded dreamers-makers. Work like crazy and play like crazy together.
Next time walking down the street, working out in the gym, don’t look down, don’t try to get ahead, to prove something.
You are already where you need to be who you need to be exactly. You know your shit like nobody else.
Look up, smile, see where and who you can help.
Find out what drives others. Be a bright part of their vision today. Help them win their battle today — and without any expectations, rewards will be more than you can carry.
Life is not meant to be lived alone. We are in it together. Each and every one of us.
And maybe one of those days, smiling to yet another stranger, you get much more than a smile back…
Maybe you’ll even get to stumble upon YOUR other, from many many lifetimes ago across the galaxies and universes…
Dedicate to Ken. One incredible dreamer-maker. And one magical person.
You don’t get healthy and stay healthy.
HEALTH is a DAILY PRACTICE. One bite at a time.
Daily Bite of Health