Life always works FOR YOU.
Dark Forces are on your side too! :)
The interview I recorded with Anthony Catanzaro, top New York fitness model, didn’t exactly work out. Because of my poor preparation the quality didn’t come out usable.
“Now I got to reach out and admit what a fool I am to let this happen, not double checking everything, and I got to ask for a re-do? He’s going through really tough stuff in life and does not have energy or time to waste on my failures. Well, next time, you’ll know better, and will prepare better not to make that happen again, not to waste people’s time, not to have to re-doit again apologizing.
Get your ass back in the game.”
The interview with JNL, Jennifer Nicole Lee, another VERY successful fitness model got re-scheduled for the next week, because stupid me didn’t confirm the time prior to recording a bit ahead. I guess some part of me wanted it to fail, because I got all nervous.
“Well, get after it, if you mean, what you say, and you are committed to your dreams, to your goals. Make it happen. Do it better. No matter what it takes — make it happen!
Get back to work.”
Lean Body Checklist journal, online healthy lifestyle journal, did not happen according to my plan — I just found millions of excuses and other work to do, because I didn’t feel like investing energy and time in it, to be honest. Something just fell not right.
“How are you gonna ever get your online business started, if you can’t even make this easy project happen, that is totally up to you?!”
I was upset with myself. To say the least.
And then, one morning, I got this comment on my social media about one of my posts. AND I got another idea, that will include Lean Body Checklist journal, as a BONUS, but is so much better and cooler — I did some research, thought about all the details, why it is SO cool and at a meeting with one amazing human being I got someone to invest in the idea and it’ll be shipped very soon.
I guess the idea got good enough for the Universe to say YES! to it.
My fitness modeling?
I got an offer to be a face and a spokes model of one entertainment promotional company AND a couple of offers about creating promotional photo and video materials for a couple of fitness studios/projects.
You’ll see it all in action very very soon…
Looking back.
What didn’t work out — was not good enough to work out.
What didn’t work out — made me a better suit for my dreams, gave me more motivation to work harder, adjusted my strategy to work smarter, gave me the education I needed.
Looking back.
My dreams are up to me.
I can make anything happen.
If I’m ready to change myself, to learn, to do everything required no matter how uncomfortable it gets, if I’m ready to stop being stubborn and start being open.
Looking back.
Life always works out FOR YOU.
Your only responsibility?
Actually 2.
- Keep your energy up — like you’re already living your dreams. (Visualizing dreams helps to tune up the right frequency to attract the right people and chances.)
- Take actions. Take massive actions. Dream BIG. Screw up BIG. That’s how we learn. Take the most “stupid” chances. Get over yourself. You — are a work in progress. Don’t take it personal. Don’t be so serious. You are here to play.
Nobody knows shit.
Just do it.
Ps. Shhh. I learned a secret. The dark side of the Force is on YOUR side too. ;)
My YouTube video, 5 min, Live, New York, Today
You don’t get healthy and stay healthy.
HEALTH is a DAILY PRACTICE. One bite at a time.
Daily Bite of Health
DREAM. WRITE. DO.
And here is an extra Bite of Health.
How to Design a Life — Debbie Millman
Why you should listen –
“Hard decisions are only hard when you’re in the process of making them.”
— Debbie Millman
For some of you, this may be most important podcast episode you ever listen to. I don’t say that lightly.
It has nothing to do with me and everything to do with my guest, who walks us through gripping stories, tactical details, humor, pain, and emotional redemption. We cover some sensitive and extremely important ground. Thank you, Debbie.
